Offerings

Relational Alchemy Intensive

A 6-month high-touch program for men who are ready to get unstuck in love.

Emotional patterns don’t live in isolation. They show up most clearly in our relationships, where our fears, defenses, and longings are all on display.

That’s what makes relationships the perfect place to do this work. In the Relational Alchemy Intensive, we’ll explore how your recurring patterns shape your intimacy, your self-worth, and your capacity to relate with honesty and care. Then we’ll work together - through conversation, experiential practice, and grounded integration - to transform them, so you can make choices from truth rather than fear.

This isn’t about perfecting your relationships. It’s about becoming someone who can meet conflict, connection, and vulnerability with more self-trust and emotional skill.

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Who it’s for

This is for you if:

  • You keep repeating the same dynamic in dating or partnership

  • You crave more intimacy, but closeness triggers fear, shame, or old wounds

  • You’ve done the therapy, reading, journaling, and reflecting—and still feel like you're circling the same emotional terrain

  • You’re ready to take ownership of how you show up

  • You want embodied change, not just insight

  • You’re ready to step into a version of yourself that feels clearer, more grounded, and more whole

Not a fit if:

  • You’re looking for a quick fix or step-by-step hack

  • You’re unwilling to look inward or take responsibility for your patterns

  • You want someone to “fix” your relationships for you

Not currently in a relationship?

You don’t need to be partnered to do this work. Relationship work is personal work - it starts with you. Whether you’re partnered, dating, solo, or in a season of healing, this work is for you.

What You’ll Walk Away With

By the end of six months, you won’t just learn how to “cope” better. You’ll become someone who can:

  • Create and sustain intimacy

  • Move through triggers without losing your center

  • Break cycles you’ve been stuck in for years

  • Show up in your relationships and decisions with integrity and self-respect

  • Stay present when things get uncomfortable without collapsing or performing

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The Dimensions of Relational Alchemy

This work is identity-level, but it’s not abstract. We focus on where your current identity breaks down under relational pressure, and we build new capacity through embodied practice. These Dimensions of Relational Alchemy offer a framework for the transformational work we’ll do together.

1) The Mirror

Build awareness and recognize emotional patterns (and what they’re protecting) with clarity and curiosity

2) Disruption

Interrupt automatic reactions and learn to stay present when you’re activated so you can respond instead of react.

3) Reckoning

Face your emotional reality and process what’s actually happening under the surface

4) Rebuild

Choose new behaviors from alignment and begin living your truth

5) Integrity

Stay connected to your growth and values when it matters most: under pressure

6) Transmission

Let your transformation ripple outward into relationships, leadership, and daily life

The Outcome: Transformation

By the end of this intensive, you will:

  • Understand your patterns and how to shift them

  • Build self-trust that isn’t dependent on perfection

  • Respond to triggers with clarity and choice, not reactivity

  • Express your needs, boundaries, and truth with clarity and self-respect

  • Navigate relationships with more confidence and care

  • Become someone who lives their growth, instead of just talking about it

This isn’t a quick fix. It’s a shift in how you relate to yourself and others so that the life you’re living starts to match the wisdom you’ve been working toward.

What’s included

  • Weekly 60-min 1:1 coaching sessions

  • Text/voice-note support between sessions

  • Somatic and experiential practices

  • Practical tools for communication, boundaries, repair, and intimacy

  • Between-session integration prompts and practices to help changes stick

  • Reading recommendations

Investment

$5,400 for 6-month program

Payment Options:

  • Pay in full: $5,200 (save $200)

  • Monthly: 6 payments of $900 (total $5,400)

  • Weekly: 24 payments of $250 (total $6,000)

Note: Weekly is the highest overall cost, but it’s still priced below my standard 1:1 hourly rate of $275.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • No. This work is valuable regardless of your relationship status.

  • While we might cover some of the same ground as you would in therapy, we’ll be focused on embodied, experiential practices with real-world applications. There may be homework, and I will hold you accountable to commitments you make within the coaching container.

  • Great! We’ll use the insights you gained there as the starting point of our work. Coaching and therapy often go well hand-in-hand - there is no need to stop therapy in order to do this program. In fact, unless you and your therapist agree that you should stop, please stay in therapy.

  • You can do powerful work individually. When one person changes how they show up, the relationship dynamic often shifts.

How to start

Book an intro call. We’ll map whats happening, name the pattern, and decide whether this program is the right next step for you.

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